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PARENTING STYLES |
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| CONTROLLING / DEMANDING |
| These parents typically |
| Place too many demands on their child(ren) |
| Have expectations of their child(ren) that are too high |
| Give consequences that are too harsh or unrealistic |
| Insult or belittle their child(ren) |
| Appear threatening to their child(ren) |
| Allow their child(ren) minimal freadom |
These children often rebel against their parents or will retreat (or escape) through a variety of potentially harmful means i.e., alcohol, drugs, running away. They tend to have anxiety about social situations and have a low self-esteem. |
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APPREHENSIVE / PERMISSIVE |
| These parents typically |
| Place little or no limits on their child(ren) |
| Allow their child(ren) to "run" the family |
| Fail to give or follow through with consequences |
| Fail to enforce rules |
| Give in to tantrums, arguments, or begging from their child(ren) |
| Maintain little or no structure |
| Lack involvement in their child(ren)'s life |
These children typically grow up "doing as they please" and have a difficult time with self-control and interpersonal relationships as they get older. |
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ASSERTIVE / DEMOCRATIC |
| These parents typically |
| Give their child(ren) choices whenever possible |
| Set firm and reasonable limits on their child(ren) |
| Give consequences that are situation-specific |
| Make the rules clear and enforce the rules |
| Are involved in the daily life of their child(ren) |
| Show appropriate affection and are nurturing and supportive |
These children tend to be more well-adjusted and are able to handle social situations more effectively. They become socially responsible and have a higher self-esteem. |
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