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PARENTING STYLES
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CONTROLLING / DEMANDING
These parents typically
  • Place too many demands on their child(ren)
  • Have expectations of their child(ren) that are too high
  • Give consequences that are too harsh or unrealistic
  • Insult or belittle their child(ren)
  • Appear threatening to their child(ren)
  • Allow their child(ren) minimal freadom

  • These children often rebel against their parents or will retreat (or escape) through a variety of potentially harmful means i.e., alcohol, drugs, running away. They tend to have anxiety about social situations and have a low self-esteem.

    APPREHENSIVE / PERMISSIVE
    These parents typically
  • Place little or no limits on their child(ren)
  • Allow their child(ren) to "run" the family
  • Fail to give or follow through with consequences
  • Fail to enforce rules
  • Give in to tantrums, arguments, or begging from their child(ren)
  • Maintain little or no structure
  • Lack involvement in their child(ren)'s life

  • These children typically grow up "doing as they please" and have a difficult time with self-control and interpersonal relationships as they get older.

    ASSERTIVE / DEMOCRATIC
    These parents typically
  • Give their child(ren) choices whenever possible
  • Set firm and reasonable limits on their child(ren)
  • Give consequences that are situation-specific
  • Make the rules clear and enforce the rules
  • Are involved in the daily life of their child(ren)
  • Show appropriate affection and are nurturing and supportive

  • These children tend to be more well-adjusted and are able to handle social situations more effectively. They become socially responsible and have a higher self-esteem.



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