Assigning Household Expectations to Teens

Here is a list of household expectations for teens that can help guide their behavior and foster  responsibilities at home:

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Household Expectations for Teens:

 

• Chores and Cleanliness:

  • Complete assigned chores on time (e.g., taking out the trash, washing dishes, vacuuming).

  • Keep personal spaces (room, bathroom, etc.) tidy and organized.

  • Help with meal prep and cleanup as needed.

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• Respect for Family Rules:

  • Follow curfew and other house rules (e.g., screen time limits, phone use guidelines).

  • Respect quiet hours and be mindful of others' schedules (e.g., not playing loud music late at night).

  • Use appropriate language and behavior when interacting with family members.

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• Communication:

  • Inform parents or guardians about whereabouts, plans, and changes in schedule.

  • Discuss any problems or concerns openly and respectfully.

  • Be honest about academic or personal issues that may require help or attention.

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• Responsibility and Accountability:

  • Take responsibility for personal actions and choices.

  • Manage schoolwork and extracurricular commitments without constant reminders.

  • Complete homework and assignments on time and ask for help when needed.

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• Contribution to Family Life:

  • Participate in family activities and meals, showing interest and engagement.

  • Show appreciation and gratitude for what the family provides.

  • Support siblings or other family members as needed, whether emotionally or practically.

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• Technology and Screen Use:

  • Use electronic devices responsibly, limiting screen time when necessary.

  • Follow guidelines for social media use, ensuring appropriate content and privacy.

  • Avoid excessive use of phones during family time, meals, or when engaging in conversation.

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• Personal Hygiene and Health:

  • Maintain good personal hygiene (e.g., showering regularly, brushing teeth, dressing appropriately).

  • Take care of health needs, including regular doctor checkups and taking prescribed medications.

  • Stay active and try to engage in physical activities.

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• Respect for Property:

  • Treat family property and belongings with care and respect.

  • Ask for permission before borrowing or using someone else’s things.

  • Be responsible for keeping their personal items organized and in good condition.

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• Financial Responsibility:

  • Help with budgeting for personal expenses (e.g., allowance, part-time job money).

  • Save money or contribute to family expenses when possible (if applicable).

  • Avoid unnecessary spending on non-essential items.

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• Safety and Security:

  • Be aware of safety rules and follow them (e.g., seatbelt use, safe driving habits).

  • Avoid risky behaviors that may endanger their well-being.

  • Keep family members informed in case of an emergency or unexpected situation.

 

These expectations can help foster a sense of responsibility and mutual respect in a household, allowing both teens and their families to thrive in a positive environment.