How to Keep Your Babysitter Happy (and Coming Back!)

If you’re fortunate enough to have found a babysitter you trust and genuinely like, you already know how valuable that peace of mind is. The next step? Keeping that sitter happy so they’re excited to work with your family again.

Here are some simple, practical ways to keep your babysitter feeling appreciated and eager to return:

1. Pay a fair, up-to-date rate

Babysitting rates have changed a lot in recent years, so make sure you’re offering something competitive in your area. Underpaying almost guarantees your sitter will be “unavailable” the next time you call. Pay generously, and you’ll have someone who’s glad to show up when you need them most.

2. Stock a few snacks they enjoy

A little thoughtfulness goes a long way. Keep some snacks and drinks your sitter likes on hand—ask ahead of time if you’re not sure. Whether it’s sparkling water, fruit snacks, microwave popcorn, or a favorite treat, it shows you care about their comfort while they’re caring for your kids.

3. Provide clear instructions and expectations

Give your sitter the details they need: bedtime routines, house rules, screen-time limits, allergy info, and anything else that matters in your home. Writing things down—either on paper or in a quick text—is incredibly helpful. Don’t forget to leave your contact info and a backup number.

4. Consider allowing them to have a friend over (your call!)

This won’t be right for every family, but some parents are comfortable with their sitter bringing a friend—especially on long evenings or holiday nights. If you know the friend or trust your sitter’s judgment, it can make their shift feel more enjoyable and less isolating.

5. Show them how the TV and tech actually work

Every household’s tech setup is a little different. Before you leave, walk your sitter through your TV, streaming services, parental controls, sound system, or anything else they might need. A quick explanation now saves them from frustration later.

6. Spend a few minutes connecting before you head out

Instead of rushing out the door, take a moment to greet your sitter warmly, chat briefly, and check in. It helps them feel comfortable in your home and reinforces that they’re valued—not just hired help.

7. Treat them to a movie or dinner

If you know your sitter will be there for several hours, offering to order a pizza or letting them stream a movie can make the night more fun. You can even ask ahead of time what they’d enjoy. Small gestures make a big difference in how appreciated they feel.

8. Come home on time

Respecting your sitter’s time is one of the biggest ways to build trust. If you’re running late, always communicate as early as possible—and compensate for the extra time.

Keeping a sitter happy isn’t complicated—it’s really about respect, communication, and appreciation. Follow these tips, and you’ll have a babysitter who’s not just willing but genuinely excited to work with your family.

(And of course, having well-behaved little humans helps too—but that’s another article entirely!)